Lewisham Children & Family Centre

We need to talk about Christmas

We all know Christmas can be expensive. Last year the average UK family budgeted £350 for their Christmas food, presents and decorations. Yet nearly two-thirds of us spent up to £250 over our festive budget.

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The pandemic hit our finances hard, with thousands of business and job losses and huge numbers of people claiming benefits, such as Universal Credit, for the very first time.

Prolonged lockdowns may also have meant that we didn’t get to see our friends and family last Christmas, so there’s added pressure to make this one a really stand-out occasion.

That’s why, more than ever, we need to talk to our friends and family about the cost of Christmas, Hanukkah, or whatever else you’re celebrating.

 

Talk to your friends and family

Pressure to please loved ones and to give children the perfect Christmas tops the list of reasons people overspend during the festive season. When you’ve worked out how much you can afford to spend on presents, talk to the people you plan to give gifts to about how much you plan to spend. This might be embarrassing. In Money Helpers survey, three-quarters of the UK told us they’d be happy talking about the total cost of presents with their partner, but just a third would be comfortable talking to their mum, friends, siblings or children and just a quarter with their dad.

 

It might help to remember that many people will be struggling this Christmas. If you’re spending too much on presents for loved ones, they might feel the pressure to spend the same amount on you, even if they can’t afford to. You might feel stressed about the idea of having a difficult conversation about money, and you may forget the important things you wanted to bring up. So follow our tips on How to have a conversation about money. You’ll feel better when you’ve had the conversation. With that out of the way, here’s some more tips to make sure any festive fun you have this year doesn’t affect your financial future.

Make a budget and stick to it

After last Christmas, it might be tempting to do more this year. If you’re not sure of your plans for the festive season yet, it could make budgeting hard. However, in Money Helpers survey of 5,225 members of the general public in the UK about their money secrets, nearly a third told them they were more worried than they were last year about being able to afford the Christmas they want. To begin your budget, make a list of family and friends you will be buying presents for and allocate an amount for each person. If money is tight, it might be worth agreeing with your friends and family ahead of time not to exchange gifts. This year especially, loved ones are likely to understand and would rather exchange cards than see you struggle financially. If you are hosting dinner then consider how many people will be coming over and how much you will need to spend on food and drink. If money is tight, perhaps you could ask guests to bring a dish. Once you have your budget it’s important to stick to it. This might mean talking to your friends and family so they have the same budget expectations as you.

 

Don’t use debt to tide you over

A quarter of people in the UK are worried about going into debt this Christmas. It might seem easy now to pay for presents on your credit card or even take out a short-term loan. But paying back the debt could be expensive, and if you miss payments there’ll be a negative impact on your credit report – which could affect your future ability to get any type of debt at all. If you can, try and set aside a small amount of money each month, just for your Christmas spending. Read our tips to saving for Christmas.  If you’re struggling with money, you can talk to someone today, for free and in confidence, online or by phone. Money Helper have specially trained advisers who can help you start sorting out your financial problems.

Use Money Helpers free guide to help you decide whether you should be borrowing money.

 

Don’t be afraid to share your worries

One of the effects of this pandemic has been to make it normal to feel, on occasion, that everything is too much. But if you’re often feeling low it could be a sign of poor mental wellbeing. Feeling down can make it tough to manage money. And worrying about it can make you feel even worse. If you can, take five minutes to read our guide Money problems and your mental wellbeing. If your worries are related to your financial independence this might be a sign of financial abuse. There’s support for you. Read more in our guide Protecting yourself against financial abuse.

Need someone to talk to about your finances?

If you’re struggling with money, you can talk to a specialist today, online or by phone, who will be able to help you start sorting out your financial problems.

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